Complicated is a killer. Untethered is priceless. At least connect only to your tribe. People graze on Facebook searching for the ones they went to school with. Pretty futile. They are not your tribe anymore. School was obligatory. You were forced to be social. For the all the grown ones searching for that lost time it is an exercise in sadness. Interests have changed. We are different creatures in different phases of our lives. Why slide back down into the black hole of unformed impressionism? Even if I was on Facebook I would have stayed hidden from the playground and huddle with my new tribe as we connect in our brave new world.